Preface
When I begin writing, I like to have a clear purpose
for my project and then be able to explain to my reader what I’m writing for in
the first place. With this project, I
wanted to write the story about my search for, and discovery of family history. Searching ought to be a rather simple thing
to write about. You start here. You look there. Collect that.
Combine these. Write it
down. In this particular case, however,
it wasn’t as easy as it first appeared.
I knew I’d have to research several surnames. That was the easy part. But I underestimated the task. I didn’t realize at first that my parents
were each connected to four surnames. It
suddenly dawned on me that there were eight families to search for. I’d never
heard mention of more than three or four names before now. It wasn’t at first obvious to me that our
ancestry is comprised of eight different families. The more I thought about it,
the more aware I became that each generation back added four more names. I was
feeling overwhelmed and hadn’t started anything yet. I hoped there would be family still around
who might remember enough of our ‘who’s
who’ to draw a map leading to my
eight surnames.
For some reason, there were relatives who didn’t
believe me that what I was doing was important.
I was, at the time, fifty years old and didn’t know who my grandfather
was. How could that not be
important? I was asking simple questions
but not getting reliable answers. Right
off the bat there were road blocks in two of the eight directions I was
heading. Obstacles appeared that were going to stop me before I could barely
get started. There were many pieces to
this huge puzzle. And I knew that when I finally pieced them all together, I
would have some very interesting details of my heritage. But how do I do it?
The late, great author, Steven E. Ambrose was
arguably one of the greatest American historians of the 20th
century. He wrote of some of the most
trying times of our lives as well as the most formidable times. The renowned publisher, Simon &
Schuster said of him, “... Ambrose brings alive the men and women,
famous and not, who have peopled our history and made the
Ambrose himself suggested. “The last five letters of the word ‘history’
tell us that it is an account of the past that is about people and what they
did, which is what makes it the most fascinating of subjects.”[2]
I really want this project to be interesting. I want the characters in our story to “people” our family history. Some have been famous in their time, while
others have served a term of notoriety.
Famous or not, each family member plays a role in the history of our
family. As a matter of fact, it has
taken several dozen of our cousins just to compile the data needed
to write this story. And every single member of the family throughout the
course of our history has contributed to it as well.
My old college Thesauraus[3]
says history is, “a narration of past
events, a factual story of the past; a chronical account. And in my dictionary, history is defined as, “a chronological record of significant
events… often including an explanation
of their causes.”[4]
So, here we are.
We’ve worked long and hard to recreate this story of the events as
factually as we could, and in our own words.
As you embark upon this journey through time, I hope you will come to
realize our effort to breathe life into the past. I hope you’ll find yourself becoming a part
of the story as you come to know those people whose birth, life, and death have
been inscribed in the archives of the world.
You will share the account of the past that is about the family, and
what they did, and hopefully find them to be the most fascinating of subjects.
Chapter 1
Beginning
By Rick Barwick
Imagine for a moment that all
history is outlawed. No one is allowed
to converse about, write about, or even think about the past. It’s improper for a husband and wife to
discuss their respective family’s histories.
No one can talk about where they came from. You’re not allowed to mention your
grandmother’s maiden name. You may never
speak of any grandparent or aunt or uncle once they’ve passed away. Your persona is whatever you’ve made of
yourself. Background as we know it is
neither important nor allowable. You are
who and what you are. Nothing about you
is dependent upon who your parents were.
Each of us is responsible for creating our own niche in this life. Try to Imagine that. What would our world be like?
As crazy as it might seem, that’s sort of the
predicament I found myself in when, in September of 2000 I decided I wanted to
learn about and then write my family history.
I was thinking about my dad’s family background and realized that I had
never even seen a photograph of my grandfather Barwick. I found it strange that I didn’t know much
about either my Mom’s or my Dad’s grandparents.
I was quite young when my Dad’s maternal grandparents died, and I wasn’t
even born when his father’s parents passed away. The same was true for my mom’s
grandparents.
My Dad had now been dead for ten years. His brother and sister were still alive, but
I wondered if they had any knowledge of the family names. The only thing I was ever told was that we
were from
I knew that my mom couldn’t help me much with the
Barwick and Kostka family data. (Kostka
was Dad’s Mom’s maiden name). I didn’t think my Mom ever knew her
father-in-law. My grandfather Barwick
had been a serious alcohol abuser who would abuse his wife when he’d been
drinking. He was the classic example of
an alcoholic spouse who would brutalize his mate while blaming her for his
inadequacies and short-comings. There
were several accounts of his actions and her reactions, but the long and short
of it was that she threw him out shortly after giving birth to her third child,
when my dad
was about five-and-a-half years old. Even Dad didn’t know his father. He never discussed it with us kids either.
But somehow, over the years, we became aware of the circumstances surrounding
the departure of his father from their lives.
Maybe my aunt, Nancy would know something. Grandma had lived with
After a few phone calls, and several e-mails and
letters between us, Aunt Nancy had been able to provide me with several details
that were helpful. Her grandfather’s
name was Carl Barwick and grandma’s was Mary.
But the most important of the info I got from her was that two of my
grandfather’s siblings were still living.
She was able to give me the mailing addresses of both. I hurried to send
off letters to each, introducing myself and asking for information about their
family. The letters were sent and all I
could do was wait and hope they’d respond.
This was a pretty rough time for me. I was having medical problems that limited my
daily activities. I wasn’t able to sit at
the computer for very long stretches, and I wasn’t able to travel out of the
house for extended periods of time. I
was physically limited by nerve damage to my legs after a series of surgeries
I’d undergone in an attempt to improve my mobility and reduce neurological back
pain. I could sit at the computer for fifteen of twenty minutes, then recline
in my Lazy Boy and watch TV for a period of time, then try another fifteen
minutes at the computer. I bragged of
being a “professional TV Watcher.”
I’d had access to the Internet for only about two
months during the fall of 2000, but was browsing with greater ease. At the same time, the field of genealogy was
growing in popularity and approaching the forefront of most popular topics on
the World Wide Web. It was my luck to be there, searching at the same
time. I purchased a laptop computer with
the notion that I could more comfortably browse the genealogical websites from
my Lazy Boy Recliner for longer periods, and I was right.
I never heard back from my dad’s uncle and was
discouraged at the thought of being completely ignored. But it was a pleasant surprise when I
received a very nice letter from Anne Wutkowski, who was my grandfather
Barwick’s youngest sister and my
father’s aunt. Not only was it a
pleasant letter, it was also filled with facts so tremendously significant that
it opened up a flood gate of family information. And, as valuable as the new information was,
there would be more to come. We exchanged
several more letters that would validate the information I’d already collected
from other family members. As more and
more information surfaced about the Barwick family, so too did details of other
branches of my family tree begin to emerge.
There were also obstacles to overcome. I was able to find evidence of my
Barwick great-grandparents, but couldn’t find anything back beyond them. And when I conducted Internet searches for my
mother’s paternal grandparents, the Wendell family, there seemed to be nothing
at all. No evidence whatsoever that the
family ever existed anywhere in
I pored over ship manifests of immigrants that
processed through
In a similar situation to that of my father’s aunt,
Anne Wutkowski, I learned that my mother also had an aunt that was still
living. I further learned that this
aunt, Maude, had an adult daughter who had been researching her family
history. Mom gave me a mailing address
so I could write to this aunt and inquire about information that she or her
daughter might be willing to share. Aunt
Maude, I presumed, was born Maude Wendell, and surely she could offer at least
some detail with which I could break my string of dead ends. I wrote another
letter outlining what it was I was hoping for.
In the meantime, my mother made this startling revelation that she was
quite sure her last name had been changed at some point. She didn’t know what it was or why it was
changed, but she was sure it happened. I
was elated. Now I was sure I hadn’t yet gone crazy.
All these dead ends I was running into. Why hadn’t I heard of this detail sooner? But, that wasn’t important. The fact is that the name was something other
than what it is now. Maybe Maude could
tell us.
There are many resources for genealogical data on
the Internet, but the largest collection of that data is the Genealogy Archive
owned by the Mormon Church, (Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, or
LDS). The many missions of the LDS
throughout the world have acquired the birth, christening, marriage, and death
records of families in every corner of the globe. The data is constantly being updated,
digitized and placed on the Internet for access by the general public. I’m not sure how I ended up on the LDS
website, but over the course of the last several years, nearly ninety percent of
our documentation has either been discovered or validated by data on the familysearch.org website. The Mormons have become the guardians of the
world’s genealogy.
Now, because of the stir I caused by bugging family
members for information about family, I think I was being perceived as keeper
of Barwick history. Even though there were some who could care less about where
we came from, I wasn’t about to let anyone down. I wanted to write the family history. But I was going to write it the way I
saw it. I wouldn’t discourage anybody
from doing their own research and having their own conclusions but the history
that I write will be from my perspective.
Wasn’t it funny, I thought?
Nobody was arguing with me. There
were no disagreements. I got the
job. Now how would I do it?
I knew that my father’s family had originated in the
Another item on the
The Barwick name appeared in federal census records,
and there were obituaries and birth records and Social Security Death Index
records, but I couldn’t make heads or tails of any of them. I’d never heard of any of these people and
was sure that they were not related. I
was able to collect enough data to corroborate the information that my great
aunt, Anne had given me, but I couldn’t go back beyond her father’s birth. I
kept looking back at the Will that I found on the web. Peter Barwig was the man’s name. And it mentioned his thirteen children. I also found a copy of the 1880 U.S. Federal
Census that listed this man, Peter, and his family. One of the children, an infant boy, was named
Carl in the Will and that name
coincided with Karol in the
Will. I wrote another letter to Aunt
Anne and asked if she recognized anything about this man or his children. Did she know the names of her father’s
brothers or sisters? Did she recall the
name of her Barwick grandparents? All questions
whose answers would be monumental to the search for family. I mailed the letter and prepared for another “snail-mail” wait.
I had so much enthusiasm and exuberance toward this
family history project that it was difficult to sit around and wait for
fourteen days for the U.S. Mail. I kept
pleading with my aunt, Nancy, and also with my Uncle Lee, youngest brother of
Eventually there were other
pictures, photographs of family members dating back to the 1880s that began
turning up everywhere. Now, instead of
frustration, I was feeling elated. I
began receiving replies to the multitude of messages I had left on “bulletin
Boards” on the Internet seeking information.
A cousin in
and another Wandell cousin
from
In the 1880 U.S. Federal Census, in the town of
had a son, Peter, and an infant son Carl, who was
listed as seven months old. The obituary
said Carl was born on
great-great grandfather. That gentleman was Thomas Stilwell Wandell,
born in
And so it went.
I was now faced with the undaunting task of detailing my rapidly
expanding family history. I could now
identify five generations of Barwig family ancestors, and six Wandell
generations. The rapidly accumulating
data with details so different from what I’d earlier presumed as fact had now
made it necessary for me to begin all over again. Begin with a much greater knowledge of who we
were and where we’d come from. I could
now put to good use the hundreds of thousands of family records being made
available on the World Wide Web. My fun
was about to begin.
Chapter 2
WANDELL: All Joost
Up
By Rick Barwick
The evidence I had regarding
the origin of my Wandell family pointed to the
My mother’s Aunt Maude had provided me with a family
pedigree that went back to my great-great-great grandfather, Thomas Stilwell
Wandell. She had been able to find only
that he came from
With the substantial amount of family data that Aunt
Maude offered, I was ready to attack the “Net”.
The various genealogy repositories throughout the Internet were so
rapidly expanding their databases that it was possible to find information
dating back five, six, even seven hundred years ago. My favorite website had become the LDS
Family-Search-dot-org site. Their
Missionaries, it seemed, had canvassed all the countries throughout
From among the many cousins that were researching the family files I was forwarded an
excerpt from a book written about
FAMILY OF WANDELL[5]
This family, which dates back to the earliest Dutch
period, had as its first representative Thomas Wandell. On March 28, 1658, Jan Peterson Van Holstein
sold to Thomas Wandell, “resident at Mespot Kill, a house and lot in the Prince
Graght, bounded north by the house and lot of the Fiscal, Nieasius De Sille,
east by the lot of said De Sille, south by the house and lot of Mr. Herman Van
Hoboken, and west by the Graght.” This
house and lot were on the east side of
The progenitors of the present families in the name
were two brothers, Johannes and Jacobus Wandell, who fled from
I Johannes Wandell settled in Fishkill,
Dutchess county,
II Jacob Wandell, the second son, was born at
Fishkill,
III Abraham Wandell, the seventh child, married
Martha Coe, daughter of Benjamin Coe, of Haverstraw. Her father, who was of a distinguished
family, was (a) member of the Assembly of New York State from
children; Livingston, born March 11, 1801; Stilwell,
born October 22, 1803; Sarah, born April 4, 1806, married Alonzo Vrendenburgh; March
19, 1809, married Nathan Sutton; Catherine,
born August 25, 1812,
married (first) George Bride, (second) David Bartley; Adeline, born March 7,
1815; Juliet, born March 21, 1817, married Charles Sutton; Benjamin Coe, born
December 28,1819.Benjamin Coe Wandell was born at the residence of his father
in Van Dam street, New York. He married
Among the early residents in
Jacobus Wandell (brother of Johannes) settled in
Jacob Wandell, his son, was a soldier in the
Revolution and served throughout the war, and was paid off and discharged when
the army was disbanded at
The discharge of Jacob Wandell, signed by General
Washington is now among the historical relics at the headquarters in
Abraham Wandell passed the early part of his life at
Haverstraw, but came to
remarkable facility as a public speaker, expressing
his view with great force and eloquence.
He was very prominently connected with the public schools and was one of
their strongest supporters. After his
term as justice ha(s) expired he lived a retired life at his residence,
Townsend Wandell was born at his father’s residence,
I was astounded by what I read in this article. Astounded and suddenly quite proud of my
ancestors. Not a single nick in the
armor. All well educated, highly
respected. Politicians. Judges.
Lawyers. Landowners. My 4th Great Grandfather, Jacob
Wandell was honorably discharged from the Revolutionary Army and by non other
than General George Washington, himself.
My ancestor was personally acquainted with the first President of the
At this point I was thinking how much trouble I’d
encountered trying to make connections via the Internet to something solid and
with validity. There were those times
when I seriously considered doing something else. Something altogether different from searching
for my family history. But now I had this
information. It was obvious to me that a
tremendous amount of research went into the development of this story and these
names and dates were priceless. Here
were the facts and details that might have taken months to collect and verify
and validate, and I came upon it in an e-mail from a cousin.
More
than astonished by these new facts, I was excited by the connection that I now
had to
history
can often be found in encyclopedias. I
had the most current edition of “Encarta”[6]
on my computer. Would I be able to make
a link between my 3rd Great-grandfather, Thomas Wandell, and this
so-called “Dutch Shakespeare”? I was
skeptical about finding any connection only because of the man’s name;
Voudel. It seemed to be too much of a
difference, even in another language.
Surnames are usually just as they appear in most any language, and I
didn’t think that Dutch was any exception.
But I crossed my fingers and hoped that my luck would continue.
I
opened the program on my computer and typed the name in the search box as it
appeared in the book excerpt. V-O-U-D-E-L.
My first reaction to the “0 matches” result was discouragement until I
read further down the screen and noticed the “Alternate Spellings” list. None seemed apt to produce anything
substantial except Vondel. I pointed the cursor to the name and
clicked. BAM! In a flash I saw three 7’s line up when I
pulled the handle on a slot machine. I
saw the checkered flag and I was leading the race. I imagined a huge banner reading, “WINNER”
and I was outrunning everyone else.
On
my computer screen, I read, “matches for Vondel”, and then below that, “Joost
van den Vondel”. Following that
was, “Items containing the word(s) “Vondel”, and then, “Dutch literature, and
Vondel, Joost van den”. At once
it occurred to me that Vondel versus Wandell wasn’t any different than connecting
Barwig and Barwick. I figured that the van den part of the name was like, “son
of” or “of the”, or something similar to surname prefixes in other languages
and cultures. At this point I believed
that the Dutch Poet Laureate, Joost van
den Vondel was my ancestor and I’d just discovered this fact that no one in
the family had ever known or suspected.
First I was able to trace an ancestor back to the Revolutionary War and
some kind of relationship with first U.S. President and Army General George Washington. Now I have evidence of a possible direct link
to a famous Dutch poet, whose name appears in my encyclopedia. I was really batting a thousand.
The Joost van den Vondel that became known
as Dutch Poet Laureate lived from 1587 to 1670.
Based on the data that appeared in the excerpt from the
Once on the Internet, I linked to the LDS
site and signed in. the “search” screen,
I typed in the first and last name, Joost van den Vondel, and clicked on the
“Search” tab. When the search results
appeared, there were not one or two but ten different records. The list was that of the International
Genealogical Index for Continental Europe, and every one was of the same name,
with a variety of record types and with dates spanning one hundred fifty years.
Of course I was elated. The first Joost
record was a birth in the year 1554.
Another birth record was in 1587, which was Joost the poet. That was followed by a marriage in 1610; a
birth in 1612; a marriage in 1643; and another marriage in 1650. Then there came a christening record in 1651;
a marriage in 1674; a birth in 1675 and a marriage in 1704. The most important of the ten were the births
and the one christening record. As the
documents that were used to validate these entries included the parents’ names,
I was able to make the pedigree list in descending order and eventually located
birth records for Johannes and Jacobus, who were the purported progenitors of
the Wandell family. I was ecstatic and
more than ready to begin describing the story of my family.
As I prepared to write about the earliest
ancestors of our Wandell family, it came to mind that there should be some
telling of the history of our homelands and not just of the people who preceded
us. I’d read through some of the family
background of our famous poet ancestor and discovered that the history of the
world during his lifetime was as interesting and significant as details of his
life. It made good sense to me
that the state of their world was as much
a part of our history as the people. I
shouldn’t, no; I couldn’t have one without the other. But my knowledge of the history of the middle
ages was from back in high school.
Ancient and medieval history was one of my worst subjects in school. Again
I’d rely on the Encarta encyclopedia and the “google”
search engine on the Internet to put the color to my images.
Chapter 3
Wooden Shoes
By Rick Barwick
Whenever I think about anything Dutch, automatically I envision
windmills and tulips. I imagine little
blond, blue-eyed boys and girls, the latter with pig-tails tied in their
bonneted hair wearing white aprons tied over their sun-faded blue full
skirts. And wooden shoes. Dutch, to me, always meant
The
During the 9th and 10th
centuries Scandinavian raiders, called Vikings, frequently invaded the coastal
areas of the
The middle ages proved to be a vital period of Dutch
growth in economy and geography. As the
population grew larger it led to the reclamation of greater amounts of land
from lakes and marshes. This reclaiming
of the land allowed for hundreds of new settlements, which gradually developed
into quite powerful towns. The
Much of the territory inland came under secular rule
while the far north remained under the control of local headmen. Unlike much of central and southern
The 15th century saw control of the
The king’s son led to the epochal war of
independence waged by the Dutch against
happened to coincided with the Protestant revolt against the Roman Catholic
Church. The disaffected group included several generations of the Wandell
family, (van den Vondel and van Vondedlen).
The family origin is believed to be in the “
In the 16th century the population of
much of the
Perhaps Matheus van Vondelen, of
Antwerpen, was a member of that Protestant radical group. And it is then likely
that his son, Joost van den Vondelen, (the first Joost), who was also born in
Antwerpen, (in 1520), followed his father’s beliefs.
Joost (#1) married Anna van Uffelen on
This man Joost might have worked in the textile
industry and was said to have been a hatter, (maker of hats?). He, too, was an Anabaptist, and, it was because
of his opinions that he found it necessary to leave Antwerpen. He took up residency in
Joost (#2) and Sara had three children while in
There is little known about the early years of young
Joost (#3). Some say he was expected to
succeed his father in the hosiery business.
Despite whatever he was expected
to do, he turned his attention to literature, and finally showed exceptional
talent at creating poetry. I was
surprised and really quite happy to discover an ancestor of mine with his own
place in the encyclopedias of the world.
There was even an artist’s rendering of his likeness. I could easily have taken the biographical
data as it appeared in the encyclopedia, but there were things in it that I
didn’t understand and couldn’t explain.
There was a sentence about van den Vondel that said, “He was
introduced to the chamber of the Eglantine, however, and devoted most of his
time to poetry and study.” I was sure that Eglantine
had something to do with the Roman Catholic Church, because Joost (#3) would
convert to Catholicism later in his life and devote many of his writings to his
faith. On the Internet there was a
website for the Saints of the Eglantine Catholic Church in Ireland, but
the church wasn’t dedicated until sometime in the 1700’s and Joost (#3) died in
1670, so he couldn’t have been introduce to that
chamber. The word eglantine is the name of
a bush or shrub that bears flowers like roses, and has thorns. It resembles honeysuckle and has been called
Dog Rose.
It’s a stretch, but van den Vondel could have been introduced to a bunch
of prickly-stemmed rose-like flowers and been influenced by the scent. He could have, but I seriously doubted that
it was that kind of an influence that turned him into the Dutch Shakespeare. I gave up on eglantine and turned my
attention back to the encyclopedia and the bio of my ancestor.